¿Cómo se llama?
¿Cómo se llama? (what´s your name?) is one of the first phrases used by most people learning Spanish (after "two beers please" and "Where are the toilets?"). This innocent enquiry does not, however, prepare you for the complexity of the Spanish system of personal nomenclature. Surnames The Spanish have two family names or surnames, called apellidos . A married woman does not take her husband's name, so there is no such thing as a maiden name. A child takes the first apellido of each parent, so the offspring of Mr Pérez Romero and Mrs Rodríguez García will become Pérez Rodríguez. In 1999 a gender equality law allowed the mother's name to appear first if desired, provided all siblings adopt the same order and it is recorded in the Registro Civil. SPAIN´S COMMONEST NAMES With so many very common names, or in small communities, the maternal and paternal apellido can occasionally be the same. This, combined with the custom of naming the first-b